When a bully says this you are aware of an unjust situation and directing your energy toward positive solutions. Misogynists use this word, remember women can be misogynists too.

When a bully says this, you are aware of your rights and willing to responsibly maintain a healthy boundary for your dignity and safety. Criminals and people whose personality disorders prevent them from following laws use this word to cover up thier boundary-crossing behavior when they exceed legal limits.

When a bully says this, you are using good judgment with regard to who you share your time and personal detail with. This is a word that general perverts love to use to label anyone who has healthy boundaries that they cannot breach.

When a bullly says this, you are scary to them, but not others. Bullies know that you are the light that reveals their sketchy behavior. But, you are seen as especially safer to good people who value that you set limits with bad people. Most importantly, you are safer for having set limits with dignity and respect.